9 Erogenous Spots On A Woman That Can Instantly Stimulate An Orgasm
Foreplay, as we now know, is as essential or more important than the act of having sex itself. Knowing where to lay your hands or caress her with your lips can be a crucial element for her to reach an orgasm.
So while you’re exploring her body, do so for your own body as well to see what turns you on and tell her about it.
9 Sensitive Places to touch a Woman
1. Her brain
If you’ve heard of the saying that a woman’s brain is the biggest sex organ, you’ve heard right. Appealing to her psyche with the right sex talk not only entices her, but also disallows monotony from setting in.
What to do: From romantic to kinky to dirty; it totally depends on what your partner is into. Once you find out what language she prefers you’ll also figure out the role play best suits the situation.
2. Her scalp
Her scalp is one of the best places to touch a woman in bed. A woman’s scalp holds more than just a head full of hair. Loaded with nerve endings massaging her head will help release oxytocin, a stress hormone that bring a sense of calm while enhancing sexual pleasure.
What to do: Run your fingers through her scalp using your fingertips and nails. Use upward and circular strokes to massage the base of her head and neck as well behind her ears. Work your way all around her scalp, her forehead, and the base of her neck for a soothing sensual effect.
3. Her ears
A woman’s ears is a sensitive place to touch a woman while in bed. Turns out her ears need more than just sweet or dirty talk. Caressing, stroking, biting and licking are all welcome sensory stimulating experiences for her ears that will trigger of sexual energy throughout her body.
What to do: Since the ears are very sensitive it makes sense to gently caress them with your fingers and use your tongue to lips as a stimulus.
4. Her neck
According to Goddard, nearly everyone responds to the sternocleidomastoid muscle (let’s call it the SCM), which connects the base of the skull under the ear to the sternum. The neck responds to the slightest of touches; whether that be in the form of a kiss, lick, bite or nibble. This is one area that you can’t afford to miss while looking for places to touch a woman in bed.
What to do: Use your tongue and teeth to nibble up and down the length of her neck muscles. Finding the ideal pressure and balance of how much to bite and release will have her fall deadweight into your arms.
5. Her mouth
The novelty of a first kiss drives up dopamine in the brain, and kissing a long-term partner releases oxytocin, both of which are feel-good, put-you-in-the-mood brain chemicals. Kissing involves more than just the preordained act of sticking your tongue down someone’s throat. A deep, intimate and passionate kiss can release enough oxytocin (the feel-good hormone that put in the mood) to bring her to an orgasm by itself.
What to do: Women are not typically sloppy kissers; meaning they don’t like a heavy exchange of saliva that smears all over their mouth, which is how some men prefer it. They prefer a kiss with firm, but a soft set of lips, which allows them leeway to kiss you back they want to.
6. Her lower back
Whether it’s at the end of a long day, or just another Tuesday, no woman can resist the power of a sensual back massage. The back is riddled with muscles and nerves that respond positively to touch, and the small of the back is especially sensitive. A sensual back massage has the power to stimulate nerves in her back that can relieve her from stress at the end of a long day as well as simultaneously turn her on.
What to do: Caress her back gently, especially the sacrum; the area right above her tailbone that is smeared with nerve endings. Use your thumbs to use pressure while massaging the area above both sides of her butt.
7. Her feet
More than 7,000 nerve endings in each foot make this a part of your body you want to focus on during foreplay or even during the sexual intercourse. It pays dividend to keep your feet squeaky clean before you get into the act.
An enormous part of the sensory nerves in the brain are devoted to the skin on your feet, but many people don’t focus on them. If a man wants to put a nice clean foot in his mouth, it will stimulate a very strong physiological response throughout a woman’s body, because part of the sensory cortex is stimulated.
What to do: Pinching her toes or gently sucking or licking her toes builds a great amount of sexual anticipation in her. Sucking her toe could be as pleasurable as oral sex to her if you hit the ‘right’ nerves.
8. Her abdomen
The fact that women are often conscious about their midsection makes it more important not to ignore that area. Since her abdominal muscles are connected to her vagina even a light stimulation in that area can heighten arousal levels, as it is crowded with nerve endings.
What to do: Stroke your fingers along her stomach all the way towards her nethers and back up. This will stimulate enough blood flow to her nether region and build up her anticipation levels.
9. Her inner thighs
The inner thighs, along with the back of her knees and crevices of her arms, are one of the sensitive parts of her body due to the sheer number of nerve endings in this area.
Her inner thighs Why it’s hot: As anyone on the receiving end of a tickle fight will tell you, the inner thighs are ridiculously sensitive to all forms of touch. Along with the backs of her knees, the inner thighs are loaded with nerve endings and are often considered to be among the most sensitive parts of the body, so gentle touches and licks are most preferred.
What to do: Use gentle strokes, light licking and nipping across her thighs while breathing into the spots where your mouth just ventured. Lightly massage that area when you are performing oral sex on her to increase her blood flow to her vagina; enhancing her levels of stimulation.